LIEBE
This paper is to show that there is nothing between "love" a man and a woman, but only a preference request an attraction of one for the other. The word "love" was coined, with unusual and unnatural attributes to enjoy life a coordinating between a man and a woman. In the name of love are many leading an unhappy, ungratifying and unbearable life. My goal is blow to the myth about love.
What is love? What is his power? How does it work begins and how long does it take? When will it bloom and wither when it does? What is the reason for his disappearance? These are some of the questions for when we try to find answers, we will see the hollowness of the word "love" and the foolishness of the people in the sky-high praise it.
First, it is to better understand the meaning of the word "love", its use and the basis on which it rests. Those who say talk of love now that it is developing dotage not affection, belonging, desire, or lust, but something unique that between a man and a woman in an inexplicable way for a particular purpose. They say love is divine and nothing else could match it. They further say that love blossoms between a man and a woman only once, and it remains unchanged thereafter. According to them, when love shifts from one person to another, it is not love, but in general pleasure, and it is branded as "whoring". They believe that true love is fixed and a truly loves would never think of other with the wish, desire or dotage. In the name of love binds them into another forever.
Whatever the consequences, I am of the opinion that the master of love are either ignorant of the reality of life and human nature feign ignorance or for some reason or other.
Most of the couples we see today are brought together by a third party to beget children, their home life more enjoyable and satisfying their natural instincts.It is very rare to find a couple who boast of being brought together by the love of god Cupid in love or driven by some divine power. Whatever the reason for their coming together, I dare say that no one has every right to decide to intervene, or an effect of love, lust, desire, affection, belonging, excitement, longing, dotage, etc. for the others. To be honest, I would rather say that vouchsafe the nature, experience, and human rights, that choosing a life partner is a person possesses, such as the privilege of his choice for lunch or a coffee shop to his taste pleasure and satisfaction or the interference of a third person and not too obtrusive.
If we probe into the nature of the word "love" bared her paraphernalia, we find nothing special about it. Regardless of the language in which the word occurs, it is nothing but a word like "Sehnsucht", "affection", "attraction", etc., that a union between a man and a woman, if we Word in a dictionary, His Sanskrit connotes root cutting, killing interrupt, etc., in Tamil, the word refers to the sexual gravity, otherwise it is a synonym with affection, desire, friendship. Affinity, etc. It seems to be nothing special about it. When people attribute a special meaning to that word, I do not know on what authority or the use of their arrival in this particular importance.
Next, we should ask how the love developing between a man and a woman. Does it bloom on their own without external promptings or a third person has facilitated its origin? If they say it blooms involuntary, we have the probe on Ort und Zeit ihrer origin.Then wir finden, dass die Liebe nicht Frühjahr aus dem Nichts, sondern nur dann, wenn ein Mann und Frau kommen zusammen oder jeder kennt den anderen Aussehen, Charakter, Züge usw. durch eine dritte Person oder aus anderen Quellen.
Auch hier gibt es die Möglichkeit der Liebe zu einseitig und nicht erwidert. Ich finde Liebe zu werden, ähnlich wie der Wunsch eines Mannes zu besitzen, etwas, das er sieht auf, hört oder kommt zu kennen. Die Mentalität der Liebhaber macht deutlich, dass ihre Liebe ist selbst-motiviert und sucht Befriedigung in jeder Besitz der anderen Seite.
Love möglicherweise aufgefordert, durch seine Schönheit, Jugend, Intelligenz, Wohlstand, Bildung, Status, Prestige Familie, oder Talent in der Musik der Besitz wert ist, Freude und Befriedigung. Jeder liebt das andere für einige vererbt oder andere, die er oder sie wirklich fest in den anderen oder voraussetzt, oder glaubt zu Irreführung durch Auftritte.
Lassen Sie uns vorstellen, dass ein Mann und eine Frau treffen einander in einem Garten. Jeder sieht auf den anderen und bekommt gravitated. Der Mann fragt sie, sie ist. Sie sagt, sie ist eine Prinzessin und der Mann verliebt sich in sie sofort. Nun, die Prinzessin, in ihrem wiederum bittet ihn, er ist. Antwortet er, er sei der Sohn von einem Diener in ihrem Palast. Was wird ihre Reaktion? Natürlich wird sie fühlen sich angewidert und disgraced. Hier gefragt, was sie einander lieben? Angenommen, der Mann erzählt ihr, dass er der Sohn eines benachbarten Königs. Wie würden sie reagieren? Sie würde fallen kopfüber in der Liebe mit ihm und wünsche ihm sollte weiterhin ihrem Mann in all ihren Geburten zu kommen. Angenommen, Sie kommt zu wissen, nach ein paar Tagen, dass ihr Geliebter ist kein Prinz, sondern der Sohn eines Sklaven. Wird ihre Liebe weiterhin wie bisher oder verschwinden? Angenommen, ein verliebt sich in ein Mädchen, vorausgesetzt, sie alle zu Recht, aber später kommt zu wissen, dass sie kranke oder dass sie eine Prostituierte ist oder dass sie ein Schemer zu seinem Reichtum besitzen, oder dass sie im Gegensatz zu seinen Erwartungen. Will seine Liebe zu ihr bleibt unverändert? This survey will reveal the hollowness of the word 'love' and its paraphernalia. Is it true love spring up at first sight or did he know step by step from each other tight? Of these two kinds of love, which is superior? Can one say that platonic love better than physical love? Can true love remain calm, even if creeps incompatible, physically or mentally? If true love is immune to the suspected infidelity or real? Can love at the wrong when away from the others in Egged on suspicion or dissatisfaction?
While falling in love, may have been lovers on a different level of physical and mental maturity, personal views and expectations of life, but changes may occur later on in their outlook. There we insist that their love should remain constant throughout their lives even in adverse circumstances, love is useless and loses its value.
Suppose you get a couple of lovers separated from each other in disgust and eventually turn ascetics, shall we call them traitors of love? Is there any point in their love? Or when an ascetic and forsakes the other hand, we should call it a betrayal of love? Such questions are spreading the hollowness of the word "love." It is only natural that his love flows in various to have forms and wishes many things in life. More often is not reflected as a man with his loved ones, hated them and even gets separated from them. But is it not obvious that the returns calls in a weaker moments and rebounds after sometime? Did we not see that one subject as a beginner, but trying freed, according to some knowledge about the world?
We see many a young man falling a victim to a courtesan, and loses his all for their interest. Are we to his passion for the courtesan love, lust, or loss of the senses? Sometimes we find a courtesan hates her job and decides to live with a man for the rest of their life-time. Identify them in the courtesan's love for the man or their preference for a secure life? Without knowing the intent of the courtesan, if the man continue to love, we can call his one true love?
The answers to these questions lead us to conclude that love is in any way other form of your own needs, desire, enthusiasm, desire, desire, or ignorance, idiocy, disappointment and deception.
poison people heap praise on unnecessary and unwanted love and the minds of the young men and women who ruin their own lives feigning false perceptions. They are similar to those set are the real supporters who are ash on the forehead, go to temples regularly, sing songs of devotion fervently, and asking the names of deities as "Shiv!" Or "Ram". They are like children playing, pretend to fall asleep and drop their toes when you mention that sleeping children do. You can hear how the women, that chaste women always go down with their eyes immediately accept that Gang. Lovers taught the illusory lines of love to follow blindly and try to live them as imaginary lover.
From what we have discussed so far it is clear that love is not something a single piece is different and of our day to day, the desire, affection, sympathy, etc. I think that the so-called love begins when two people come into contact with each other and exchange their views, thoughts and desires. These personal characteristics, needs and desires are not fixed. You are bound to change in the course of time. Thus, the mutability of love, affection, attraction, etc. I am not against love, during and affection, longing, and a friendly attitude. Love, affection, longing, friendship, etc., for the happiness and satisfaction and where there is no happiness and satisfaction, it is still imposture itself as a true lover. I have to avoid all this, dass diese,, unverantwortlich, sich in den persönlichen Glück und Befriedigung anderer durch die Befugnis utterings wie "Dein ist nicht Liebe" "Es ist gegen die Liebe", "Dein ist Lust" "Deine Liebe ist gleichbedeutend mit der Prostitution" etc und das Leben in eine Hölle der Name der trügerischen Wort "Liebe"
von Periyar e. V. Ramasamy